“I feel stuck! ’Brain-fog’ is stopping me from thinking, feeling and seeing clearly … I just feel I don’t know what is right, or true for me .. why am I not that same fun-loving, sensuous woman anymore? The one that can handle anything and is in love with life ..?“
The truth behind the scenes
Above are one of my client’s words at the start of our working relationship. When we think about the fast paced world that we live in combined with society’s expectations .. it is no wonder so many of us feel this way. We get caught in a spiral of constant negative thinking and are feeling like there is not much to enjoy .. waiting to go on holiday abroad somewhere to ‘have some fun’.
My client above was successful in business, but she wasn’t happy. To admit this can feel like failure. To her it felt embarrassing to admit that what everyone saw was not what she was feeling behind the scenes.
I asked her is she believed that we were here to work hard all the time? In order to prove ourselves worthy of abundance, happiness and fulfilment? We did some more work on this together and she came to the conclusion, that it was what she grew up to believe as the truth. And she was now doing things that she thought she was supposed to do. However, they didn’t actually sit right with her and didn’t bring her joy.
The actual truth
The actual truth is that our natural state is to be in pleasure. Aren’t we always looking for something that makes us happy and fulfilled ..? That is the end goal! We have all our senses designed to taste, smell, see, hear, feel, touch and ‘sense’ all of the lusciousness of life! Our purpose in life is to use all of our senses and talents to do or find what we love, in a way that benefits ourselves as well as others and ultimately the world as a whole.
Change is challenging
My client had come to the conclusion that she had unconsciously built a business and life that wasn’t in alignment with her true self. When you find yourself not ‘in pleasure’, you are not in alignment with your true purpose. What we need is to have energy, stamina and confidence to put ourselves out there. We need to feel clear about what we do and who we are, to know exactly where we are going with it. To create a life of pleasure, flow and meaning. That can only happen when we are in alignment. In order to achieve that, (challenging) changes are usually needed.
How to get into Energetic Alignment
If you have been feeling ‘out of sorts’, uninspired and/or exhausted with the way things have been going for you, then check out these 9 steps to begin getting your life back on track;
“WHEN WE ARE IN ENERGETIC ALIGNMENT, WE ATTRACT OUR GREATEST DESIRES!”
About the author: Femke Adrienne Williams has a BSN and MSc in Health Promotion from Maastricht University (The Netherlands). She enjoys continuous learning and using her wellbeing coaching, natural health & healing knowledge and intuition to help others find their own resources and solutions to their life’s challenges, and to talk about ways that the human energy systems can support our physical, mental, emotional & spiritual health. When she’s not getting super passionate about her favourite topics of alignment, holistic health, moving meditation (Chakradance), engagement, deeper purpose, learning, joy & creativity, she loves to go up into creating her own art works, playing the piano, horseriding, spending time with her family and travel.